Unfortunately, for your wife, you have a connection with someone else. There's a stranger in your bedroom theoretically. She isn't quite sure, but she can tell. Call it, 'woman's intuition.' She knows someone is taking all your attention away from her. She asks herself, 'Is there someone else? Are you seeing someone else?' Technically, you're not seeing anyone else, but what we have is real even if it's virtual. She would lose it if she knew that we had a connection that she could never have with you. She knows that it was always me. You want to tell her the truth. You have a connection with someone else and you're leaving her, but you kind of like the fact that she doesn't know. It's safer keeping our relationship this way and a lot of fun. You could leave her, but why would you want to when you're having such a good time with me behind her back?