She totally KNOWS you are GAY! You have tried to make it with women all your adult life, you are a good looking guy, you have quality that women find very attractive - except for when it becomes time to make it work in the bedroom! You simply cannot help yourself, your words and actions betray you, and while you think she's OK with how the date went, the truth is - you are gay and you did not do what she expected you to do, of course not, and now she is telling EVERYONE she knows.... OMG He's totally GAY!