I'm not often horny - and fumble with my fingers on the cunt. But it can happen and then I find massaging the clitoris really nice - or I take a toy. I got a big dildo from a friend - it fills my mature cunt perfectly. But a zucchini from the vegetable department in the neighbors' garden or the supermarket can also feel good in the vagina. Having such a fat cock in the vagina is a rarity. Most guys only ever have these little dicks that are always fast fucking and squirting. Then better like that.